
This is where the big differences between these apps are apparent. Once you pick that perfect selfie and write paragraphs to sell all your best attributes to your future mate, it's time to start browsing. For example, Kippo's nerd-friendly features attracts gamers, Vinylly connects matches through shared love of music, and SilverSingles reskins EliteSingles for a senior audience.

Other apps target identities beyond gender and sexuality. For example, OkCupid goes beyond forcing users to choose between being a male or female, including options like Hijra, genderfluid, and two-spirit.

However, some are friendlier to the LGBTQ community than others. Even eharmony now finally allows for same-gender couples. If you don't fall into the cis-hetero dating pool, you'll be happy to know that most of the apps reviewed here are inclusive. Still others, like Zoosk, ask so little that you're left to wonder what's being used to actually match you with like-minded love-seekers. Others, like eharmony, make you fill out an endless questionnaire before you can even think about browsing for your match. Some apps, like Tinder, value photos over personality. Beyond that, it can be a bit of a crapshoot. When it comes down to actually putting yourself out there and creating a profile, all apps ask for the basics: name, age, location, a photo, a short blurb about yourself, and (usually) if you can stand a person who smokes. Only Facebook Dating is totally free, and that’s only if you don’t consider your existing personal Facebook profile data to be currency. While some apps may advertise themselves as free, all of them try to get a buck from you in the end. Options-letting you pay to boost your ranking in search results, letting someone know that you are really, really interested in him or her or them, or undoing a dreaded left-swipe that was supposed to be a right-swipe-will cost you extra. (You're not afraid of commitment, are you?) While the monthly charges for the apps we review here range in price from $10 to more than $40, most offer a discount if you commit to a long-term subscription, such as six months or a year. Most of the others let you view your potential matches without charging, but they make you pony up and subscribe if you want to actually reach out to them without limits-especially if the interest is one-sided. As in, how much do you want to pay to make your heart go pitter-patter? Some apps, like Plenty of Fish, let you view profiles and send messages for free. The first thing you need to decide is your commitment level. With so many choices, how can you find your perfect, loving match? Getting Started With Dating Apps A dating app that only works on Thursday? What a concept! Many even have special video services they've introduced specifically to deal with dating in a post-COVID world, as we'll explain later. Bars, nightclubs, and other traditional meeting places may be starting to reopen, but how safe are they? Dating sites and apps are the way to go these days, with new services cropping up all the time.

From the hyper-specific-FarmersOnly, JDate, 3Fun-to the general ones we review here that cast wider nets, there are many, many options. Whether you're looking for a long-term relationship or a quick booty call, there's a dating app for everyone.
